Discovering the door of contentment in our lives 

Opening the door of contentment in our lives is very much in our own hands but we mostly keep it closed and do not even use it for our own comfort. We have termed it here as USE-LESS PHOBIA. This is our penny-pinching closed fist, in the control of our stingy mind, making us feel poor all our lives.

A healthy mind needs no unhealthy thoughts destroying our peace of mind

Never delay, address, and adequately handle teasing hiccups as soon as possible, how insignificant they may seem. Never let them get accumulated over time, these tinny little problems become the causes of some serious problems like anxiety and, if not treated in time can even cause serious problems like depression.

Empathy has healing powers never let pangs of chronic ailments turn us apathetic

If we, as victims of chronic ailments, could keep our spirits alive by reading and listening to altruistic activities done by people like Stephon Hawking with serious disabilities, we can also create a light at the end of the darkest tunnels and many silver linings amidst the darkest of clouds, this inborn ingenuity can always help us draw intangible strengths like willpower from tangible strengths like altruistic thinking.

Perceptive handling of chronic ailments makes it easy to endure hardships.

For the people like me, going through the pangs of chronic ailments, especially at an older age, these words of Erwin Rommel, “Sweat Saves Blood….” means; if hardships are endured, with courage and resilience, at the beginning of traumatic challenges, for sure makes it easy to undergo the increasing pain and agonies of chronic ailments with time, especially when multiplied with age related infirmities.

Living confidently and comfortably with chronic ailment is easy for innovative people  

Best strategy to confidently and comfortably live with any chronic ailment is to keep setting and winning easily attainable, small objectives, constantly providing opportunities to celebrate the little success now and then, offering big opportunities of keeping up the spirits and feeling elated.

Living confidently and comfortably with chronic ailment is possible

To take such challenges as living confidently and comfortably with the chronic ailment is always possible, if we make prudent planning and judicious execution of well-chalked-out activities with the help of family, friends, and experts. We don’t have to necessarily depend on costly hi-tech gadgets, advanced rehabilitation facilities, and highly qualified therapists; the best recovery from brain-related maladies like stroke, Parkinson’s disease, and Multiple Sclerosis perhaps, can best be achieved if we as patients have the maximum involvement in the recovery process, and super results are awaiting for those who take the challenges like chronic ailment as an opportunity to learn and become a humble philanthropist by sharing their experience of handling the challenge of chronic ailment like paralysis. It might be truly fascinating for my readers that some innovative patients can manage with, friends as Facebook friends, Family as a lone loving spouse, and Google as the expert for the last 3 1/4 years.

Getting rid of loneliness only requires getting out of the selfish cocoon

Loneliness perhaps is one big problem encountered by most of us entering older age, especially when faced with one or two chronic ailments as well. The day we liberate ourselves from the ME syndrome (SELFISHNESS) all of us could enter into the WE SERENITY and surely would get rid of the pain and agonies of loneliness. Let’s take off from this cocoon of SELFISHNESS, we have been weaving around our SELF as we grow old, and start enjoying life like a butterfly.

Perhaps the only way to win over chronic ailment is learning to live with its snags 

Challenges always carry difficulties, and the only option in the minds of the competitor is to win over the problems by conquering and completely crushing the enemy once and for all. On the contrary, winning against chronic ailments is such an awkward trial that winning sometimes is not a practical option; the best strategy is making a truce. Instead of getting involved in fighting an endless war of attrition, slowly eroding all our vitality, and seriously exhausting all our reserves, defeating us mentally and physically, we must befriend such an anomalous enemy by learning to live with the difficulties of her challenges. This way, we are a winner because we can save and preserve our depleting strength and energies, so ardently required at this stage and age.

Plateau in recovery from paralysis is more in our minds than in our body

Day we overcome the fear of plateau, more than half the battle of recovery from chronic ailments is won

Loving people always loved & looked after, never left alone

Solution to almost all our Old Age Hiccups are very much in our control, more loving and sincerely thoughtful, considerate compassionate and cooperative we are more genuinely we are loved and looked after by all.