Win over initial shock of trauma with infinite powers of love

At this crucial time of CORONAVIRUS PANDEMIC we must learn the best strategies to handle any crises: winning over the initial shock as soon as possible is vital for starting a successful journey to RECOVERY after any traumatic health challenge. When we encounter a sudden and severe trauma like STROKE PARALYSIS, lot of questions starts bombarding our mind like what has happened? why happened? WHY ME? will I ever be able to recover? etc. – etc. One has to really make determined efforts to overcome this frustrating state of mind and tell own self, “what has happened cannot be reversed so might as well start concentrating on last question, and tell yourself loud and clear that lot of people have recovered from paralysis and I too will recover by the grace of God”. This is the most important, first and foremost step to manage seriously disrupted nerves, required within first hour of the attack. What we need to do at this most crucial moment to tell ourselves COME ON let’s start concentrating on NOW, at least try it and NOT the past and the future.

At this critical juncture, keeping the nerves strong and alive is only possible if one could rise above own self and starts realizing the anguish faced by the loved ones around who are also going through the same trauma but with different facets and magnitude of agony, which certainly is more torturous as these people are also confronting with other problems like reaching the hospital arranging different services etc. besides impromptu financial burdens. This realization greatly helped me in regaining my seriously hampered confidence and as I was put into the ambulance I started applying the antidote number one and I started concentrating on NOW. First thing I noticed after this realization was gloomy face of my wife which looked more frozen than my limbs. In my best efforts to break the atmosphere so full of despondency, as I wanted to somehow reassure my wife, suddenly I said looking out of the widow, “hey!! Look there is a bird flying” after all I have been a flyer!! She told me latter that it could make her all the more worried that perhaps I was losing my mind as well along with parts of brain as she least expected this kind of response from me within an hour of the stroke. I really don’t know the effect of my strange response till to date but her voice was becoming little confident as she was busy taking directions from my beloved buddy Haroon Pasha from my cadet days, who was by now waiting for us at the hospital.

One BIG LESSON here is not to lose hope in all circumstances and always make best use of tremendous powers of love, by giving love instead of always wanting to be on the receiving end, radiating this strength out of our own self energizing everyone around instead of becoming a burden which ultimately hurts us the most because it makes us terribly dependent on outside energy. When we develop positive VIBES ultimately it comes back to us doubled and redoubled sometimes like love we give always returns back to us like boomerang.

Miracles of love can be learnt even from a little bird – If have will https://bit.ly/38y7eX5

With love to all my BELOVED friends with prayers that we become beacons of LOVE and positive VIBES in this testing time❤️

Conceived 14 Apr 2020
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…… solo llegó a saber después de un derrame cerebral
Secreto de vencer desafíos
cuando ganamos el choque inicial
significa que la peor parte de la batalla ha terminado
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…… n’est venu à connaître qu’après un AVC
Secret de gagner des défis
quand nous gagnons le choc initial
signifie que la pire partie de la bataille est terminée
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…… erst nach einem Hirnschlag kennengelernt
Das Geheimnis, Herausforderungen zu gewinnen
In diesem Moment gewinnen wir den anfänglichen Schock
bedeutet, dass der schlimmste Teil der Schlacht vorbei ist
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…… узнал только после мозгового инсульта
Секрет победы над вызовами
когда момент мы победим первоначальный шок
означает, что худшая часть битвы закончилась
…… uznal tol’ko posle mozgovogo insul’ta
Sekret pobedy nad vyzovami
kogda moment my pobedim pervonachal’nyy shok
oznachayet, chto khudshaya chast’ bitvy zakonchilas’
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……只有在脑中风后才知道
克服挑战的秘诀
当我们克服最初的震惊时
意味着战斗的最坏部分已经结束
……Zhǐyǒu zài nǎo zhòngfēng hòu cái zhīdào
kèfú tiǎozhàn de mìjué
dāng wǒmen kèfú zuìchū de zhènjīng shí
yìwèizhe zhàndòu de zuì huài bùfèn yǐjīng jiéshù
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…… عرفت فقط بعد السكتة الدماغية
سر الفوز على التحديات
عندما تفوز اللحظة على الصدمة الأولية
يعني أن أسوأ جزء من المعركة قد انتهى
…… earafat faqat baed alsuktat aldamaghia
sira alfawz ealaa altahadiyat
eindama tafuaz allahzat ealaa alsadmat al’awalia
yaeni ‘ana ‘aswa juz’ min almaerakat qad aintahaa
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…… صرف دماغی فالج کے بعد پتہ چلا
چیلنجوں پر جیت کا راز
جب ہم ابتدائی صدمے پر جیت جاتے ہیں
مطلب جنگ کا بدترین حصہ ختم ہوچکا ہے

Secret of winning over challenges is to get over initial shock